I believe you actually told me to stop. Been there, done that. But the reason we always send message (and give time to share) is that very often people just don't hear what you say, especially if you're a bit far away.
But actually, I understand that you THOUGHT I just ignored your orders. ---> it is not technically RDM (lack of roleplay) but a misunderstanding, in a manner of speaking. In very similar situation, I was forced to return my loot and give some compensation. This ranting on forums feels stupid, and the point on this was to make the server be less about RDM, not the ban itself.
So, let's say I get my police beret back, some money to make up the gear, and this is fine by me.